Self-Confidence Is Queen

Your Self-Confidence IS The Answer

The tale of a torn princess…

I have the privilege of talking to you from a tale of abuse, self hatred and stifling growth.  I say this as a privilege because today I stand before you no longer a victim, loving who I am and soaring in my life’s purpose.

Once upon a time there lived a little girl.  A soul that graced this Earth with the beauty and compassion to change lives as a leader.  Her life began as the oldest of two children.  She was never quite understood and many times set aside for her sibling.  Her voice was shunned, her thoughts deemed “weird”.  She longed to fit in.  To be understood.

As her life unfolded, she found herself buried in rebellion.  She acted out against her parents, her community and against herself.  Feelings of shame graced each day as circumstance after circumstance proved to her that she was different.  She didn’t fit in.  No one truly understood her.

Along the way she found friends, that quickly fell away.  She chose companions that acted in ways that reinforced her menial spirit.  Many words were said to hold her down, tell her she didn’t matter and prove that she was nothing significant.  So she hid. She hid who she was. Compromised to fit the expectations of others.

One day, she picked up a book.  A book that talked to her soul. A book that said many women didn’t fit in.  Words that resonated with her very being.  This very moment, she stopped dead in her tracks, fell to the ground and sobbed.  She had been validated by a book.  A BOOK!

For the first time, this princess felt a glimmer of hope.  A glimmer of belief in who she was and who she might one day become.  She let her mind drift into dreaming.  She dreamt of her amazing world.  Leading others into the path of self love.  Believing in dreams again, believing they mattered and never one moment longer thinking they needed to be different.

This shift in her life began a journey.  A journey where she began to tell her story.  She vulnerably began to stand in power….to embrace her weirdness.  The choices that she made to learn, to be who she was meant to be and to begin helping others find the same gave a warm tingling in her heart.

Many internal battles coupled with external battles, paved the way to carry this princess into battle.  Into battle against the world of oppression.  Into the world where she spoke out against smallness and victimhood.  This battle was for the princesses, goddesses and queens of this world.  Yes YOU!

My life experience has taken me through the trenches so that I could stand tall and proud with you to help you learn, know and live your brilliance.  WE are Goddesses!  We are amazing women just the way we are.  We will not be put down.  We will no longer hide.  We are superheroes!

It is NO accident that you found us!!  You are the beauty in this world exactly the way you are!

Thinks of this…  The wind blowing in your hair as you carelessly fly to your place of paradise!  That place you feel free and confident.  That place that warms your heart.  You know the feeling?  

NO??  You have forgotten what it feels like to be YOU?  You have lost the love for YOU?

What would you give to feel free, self-confident, joyous and full of life?  Do you know that all of these powers are in you?  You were put here to be the perfect you that you are today.  You were put here to uncover your true superhero powers and to share with the world!  

When a superhero finally accepts that they are truly great, they embrace their powers.  You’ll find her flying confidently through the air, knowing her mission and the confidence to carry it out.


Here are 3 steps to put your path towards self-confidence

1. Know that you are perfect in every moment.

This means God didn’t make a mistake.  Through all of your choices, all of your quirks, you are an amazing woman just the way you are, right now.

2. Stop listening to others.  Their perception of you is none of your business.  You have no reason, nor do they have any right, to decide what your reality is.

3.You have a path for this lifetime.  It shows itself in your passion.  That burning feeling in your gut.  Follow it.  No matter what anyone else feels, believes or thinks, you are here for a very specific reason.  Embrace your power.


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